Are Our Offering Plates Passing Us By?

The landscape of giving to religion has been changing for decades.  It’s like we are on a train that has pulled out of the station.  The scenery looks different, because it is different, and chances are will not get back that way again.

Just thirty years ago, sixty percent of all charitable giving was to religion.  Today giving to religion is still the largest segment of charitable giving, but in significantly smaller proportion (33%) than in decades past.  The fact is, there is greater competition for the U.S. charitable dollar.

There are more than 370,000 churches and 1.8 million nonprofit organizations, nearly twice as many nonprofits than in 1995.

Has our “you should give to our congregation because we really need the money” message so dulled the impulse to be generous, that our congregants are simply letting the offering plate pass them by without a second thought?

The simple answer is YES.

Contemporary American culture and industry are driven by mass consumption.   Add to that our prevailing cultural value of individualism and tendency to distrust institutions, we find ourselves impacted and influenced by an almost inescapable way of life.

There is greater diversity found on the religious landscape, with a mix of beliefs and teachings about stewardship, ranging from secular financial management to biblical tithing.  Clergy consistently report discomfort or resistance in taking an active in congregational stewardship.  There seems to be a general lack of connection between generosity, giving behavior, and religious identity.  Many of our congregations are caught in the “pay the bills” scarcity mentality rather than the more expansive “fund the vision” mindset that would inspire greater generosity.

As open as western culture can be about a wide range of subjects, money persists as one of our most taboo topics.  Technology has opened may doors to systematic charitable giving, however there is general avoidance of using electronic means of giving by congregants.

According to the anecdotal research conducted in Passing the Plate , authors highlight a number of factors that impact congregants’ motivations and purposes for giving, despite the clear religious teachings.   There is a heightened level of complexity and inconsistency between what people profess to believe, and their behavior.  Ambivalence about faithful giving persists among those who self-identify as “religious.”  Clearly there is a need to foster generosity as an appropriate practice for acting on one’s religious beliefs and values.

Some ideas for sparking generosity and motivating people to give to their faith communities:

  • Leaders boldly articulate ways to “Live the Vision”
  • Leaders model generosity through their own giving to the congregation
  • Congregants are invited to give generously and regularly
  • Communication about giving money is clear, positive, and enthusiastic
  • Provide several ways to contribute, including online donations, systematic electronic contributions, spontaneous giving opportunities, special offerings, etc
  • Stimulate generosity by giving a proportion of the offering or congregation’s budget for mission and outreach
  • Facilitate small group conversations and learning experiences about money and giving.
  • CELEBRATE the successes in the congregation’s fundraising—even if the goal isn’t met (yet!)

To revisit the summary of responses to the Giving Speaks “Sharing the Offering Plate” poll: http://wp.me/p1xUUk-42

Sources for this post:

Barna, George.  How to Increase Giving in Your Church.  1997.  Regal.

Christopher, J. Clif.  Not Your Parent’s Offering Plate.  2008.  Abingdon Press.

Schaller, Lyle E.  The New Context for Ministry.  2002.  Abingdon Press.

Smith, Emerson with Snell.  Passing the Plate.  2008.  Oxford University Press.

Relevant resource:

https://faithinspires.wordpress.com/tag/stewardship/

Money and Giving for the Thrill of It!

This is a guest blog post by the Reverend Robert Thayer, Minister of the UU Church in Brockton, MA, and author of the popular book  Offerings: Remarks on Passing the Plate, in which this story is published under the title of Large Bills.

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Some years ago I visited England and attended Sunday worship with some British Unitarian friends.  We sat toward the front of the church.  I was all tingly—both from the cold sanctuary and the warm glow of being on my ancestral soil.  The sermon was magnificent, and I was feeling effusive, very generous.

The moment came for the offering.  I reached into my wallet and saw a wad of British pound notes, but nothing particularly small.  I mentally shrugged my shoulders and pulled out a twenty-pound note, held it in my hand, and prepared to drop it in.  My friend shook his head at me.  I raised my eyebrows at him—why not?  He whispered, “It’s a rather large donation.”

I felt indignant.  Who was my friend to tell me I was giving too much.  I flapped the twenty-pound note in the air and whispered, “Are you sure?”

“See the usher?” he asked.  “I know he will be in shock.  He may fall down.  He has never seen a twenty-pound note in a collection except for famine relief in India.”

“Now you have me curious.  Let’s see if you are right,” I responded testily.

“Be mindful,” he warned, “that the usher will ask you after the service if you would like change.”

Well, it did not happen that way.  When I dropped the note in the plate, the usher initially reacted with a frown, but his face soon brightened with a proper smile.  Then I realized something very thrilling.  Because we sat in front, every British Unitarian on our side of the aisle that morning would see that note in the plate.  What an example, I thought.  On second thought, I remembered that since World War II the Brits have had a thorough familiarity with Yanks and many think of us as “over-sexed, over-paid, and over here.”

At the end of the service, I shook hands with the people all around me, including the usher, and gave hugs to my two colleagues who had been in the pulpit that day.  After we walked out into the chill October morning, I looked back into the vestibule and saw the usher take out my note.  He looked outside down the walkway, caught my eye, and said, “Thank you very much.”

Some days you may come to church with only large bills, and even if you make your pledge payment faithfully by mail, you may wonder, what can I give today?  Let the spirit guide you.  I can only say that the one time I surprised the British usher, I felt the thrill of pure joy in the moment when we give and receive our offering.

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On a good many Sunday mornings the offering, given and received, is a ritual that rarely provokes any exceptional notice.  If one morning there is a large bill in the plate those who can see this bill will be amazed and stop, and then be amazed again, think – “Somebody is really …..” Fill in the blank.  The attention is gathered around generosity.

During one Sunday worship in the UU Church in Brockton, MA where I serve as minister, I read this story before the offering.  There were three Brits in attendance–a groom, with his bride, and two of his groomsmen–present because of a wedding ceremony I officiated the day before.  In glancing at the offering plates when they were brought forward to the altar, I glanced down to see a 20 pound note laying on top of one plate.  I picked it up, turned around, faced the congregation, and held up the note.  I joyfully mouthed the words:   Thank You very much!

~Bob Thayer

Offerings:  Remarks on Passing the Plate, by Robert A. Thayer.  2004.  Skinner House Books.  Available for purchase through the UUA Bookstore.   http://www.uuabookstore.org/productdetails.cfm?PC=659

 

               

 

Stewardship as Ministry

Stewardship does indeed deal with money, but it must be far bigger, far more holistic than that. For money is the symbol, the powerful symbol, of our ongoing need for control. But as we begin to think of life in terms of what we have instead of what we lack, then we can dare to let go of the things that hold us back and strategize together as faithful stewards instead of fearful owners.  

                                                                      ~Rev. C. K. Robertson, Transforming Stewardship

Stewardship is the responsible management of the resources entrusted to one’s care. In the context of a religious community, stewardship is a ministry.  Abundance can be found when all engage as stewards of the faith community and its resources.

This can be accomplished through intentional ministry and religious leadership in the following areas:

Spiritual Development

-Religious leaders must first engage in their own inward spiritual and religious journey.

-Examine their own attitudes toward giving and generosity and the spiritual basis for developing them.

Pastoral Care & Support–

Individuals and families often have complex and stressful dynamics around money and personal finance.

-Each contact that involves the topic of money is potentially pastoral in nature and must be treated with sensitivity.

-Ministers and lay leaders benefit from understanding their own relationships to money when relating with others about theirs.

Worship & Preaching

-These are unique opportunities to convey the importance of stewardship, generosity, and giving through compelling sermons, prayers, inspiring stories, and music.

-Worship leaders can help the engage the congregation by inviting the expression of gratitude, through prayer, the offering, and personal testimony.

Prophetic Leadership

-Sharpening the focus on the positive and worthy aspects of the faith principles and religious values that inspire generosity.

-Revealing and articulating the connections between the congregation’s mission, religious values, and stewardship.

Teaching & Coaching—

-Understand stewardship and generosity as developmental learning processes with learned behaviors.

-Ongoing education and support of the congregation’s staff, lay leaders, and stewardship leaders are necessary.

-Leaders stay abreast of the trends and best practices for stewardship and fundraising in order to create and sustain a culture of generosity in the congregation.

Modeling Generous Behavior

-Model giving as a spiritual practice and lead by example.

-Actively cultivate stewardship through explicit and positive messaging through multiple channels of communication:  worship, in print, online, and interpersonal.

-Explicitly and enthusiastically asking for financial support is essential, and is most effective when done face-to-face.

Before you write an amount, please ask yourself, what is the most generous pledge you believe you can make. Then add something to that. Find out what might happen if you turn out to be even more generous than you think you are.                                                        

~Rich Fritzon, Main Line Unitarian, Devon, PA

NOTE:  The content for this Stewardship as Ministry post is based on the UUA General Assembly 2011 workshop Breaking Through to Generosity created and presented by Rev. Terry Sweetser, Rev. Stephan Papa, and Laurel Amabile of the Stewardship and Development staff group.

Workshop Presentation Slides are found online at: http://www.uua.org/finance/fundraising/ga/185798.shtml

Recommended Reading:

The Abundance of Our Faith: Award-Winning Sermons on Giving, Plus Suggestions for Group Discussion. Terry Sweetser and Susan Milnor, editors.  2006. Skinner House Books.  $16.00

Not Your Parents’ Offering Plate: A New Vision for Financial Stewardship.  J. Clif Christopher. 2008. Abingdon Press.  $14.00  ISBN-13:  978-0-687-64853-5

Giving—the sacred art: Creating a Lifestyle of Generosity.  Lauren Tyler Wright.  2008.  Skylight Paths Publishing.  $16.99.  ISBN: 13-978-1-59473-224-9

UU Study Guide for Giving—the Sacred Art by Laurel Amabile.  Available as free downloadable pdf:  http://www.uua.org/documents/stew-dev/study_guide_giving.pdf

The New Context for Ministry:  The Impact of the New Economy on Your Church.  Lyle E. Schaller.  2002.  Abingdon Press.  ISBN: 0-687-06580-1

Money Matters in Church:  A Practical Guide for Leaders.   Aubrey Malphurs and Steve Stroope.  2007.  Baker Books.  ISBN 10:  0-8010-6627-1