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About Giving Speaks

I am a stewardship and certified fundraising professional, with a lifespan faith development background. I am a seasoned speaker and workshop leader focusing on topics of generosity, giving, fundraising, stewardship, and leadership.

What Matters Is How Well We Have Loved

We may ask ourselves if we’ve shown enough kindness and generosity and compassion to the people in our lives.  Perhaps we question whether we’re doing right by our children, or our community, whether our priorities are in order.  We recognize our own mortality.  And we are reminded that, in the fleeting time we have on this Earth, what matters is not wealth, or status, or power, or fame, but rather how well we have loved and what small part we have played in making the lives of other people better.  

This is an excerpt from the message President Obama shared in January 2011 at the University of Arizona during the Memorial Service for the victims of the Tucson Shootings.   His words are an important reminder to all of us to make the most of the time we have on this earth in our relationships and service.   Our living and our giving choices reflect our priorities, who and what we love, and our values.

During these times of political and religious unrest and polarization–due in large part around matters of money, status, and power –let us pause to reflect on how well we are loving others and making choices that benefit our fellow citizens.

Through a process of reflection, we can discern the ways we can demonstrate kindness, generosity, and compassion in our relationships, our faith communities, our society, and our world.  There couldn’t be a better time to stand boldly on the side of love.

For the full transcript of the President’s speech: http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2011/01/13/AR2011011301532.html

For more information about the Standing on the Side of Love campaign and social justice activities:  http://www.standingonthesideoflove.org/

Giving From Where We Want Our Heart To Be

The best advice might not be “Give from your heart,” but “Give from where you want your heart to be!”  Give as though you were the sort of person you would like to be–and let your heart catch up later!

I came across this quote in an article by Mark Allen Powell, an author and New Testament professor, and they got me to thinking about the challenge many of us face in aligning our charitable giving with our values and priorities.   Religions and wisdom traditions around the world offer explicit guidelines for giving, with a common thread:  your treasure is where your heart is.

Many of us aspire to grow in our capacity to be generous.  We want to be in a position to give more of our time, money, and energy to the people, institutions, and causes most important to us.   However, this can be a challenging aspiration for many, depending on our financial circumstances and obligations.   Generosity and giving are learned behaviors, developmental in nature, and reinforced by practice and the emotional rewards experienced.

As Powell suggests, sometimes we need to envision ourselves as generous people, clarify what is most important to us, and then simply engage in the action of giving.   With each act of generosity, we begin to think of ourselves and others differently.   It is through our regular practice of giving that we align our behavior and our resources with our heart.

May it be so.

Resources for Exploring Religious and Wisdom Teachings about Giving, Generosity, and Stewardship:

http://www.learningtogive.org/faithgroups/

http://library.generousgiving.org/page.asp?sec=9&page=172

http://www.aish.com/sp/pg/48907677.html

http://library.generousgiving.org/page.asp?sec=9&page=172

http://www.viewonbuddhism.org/dharma-quotes-quotations-buddhist/tonglen-taking-giving.htm

Giving Speaks

I warmly invite you to join me on the journey of learning and experiencing the blessings that come from cultivating generosity in our lives through giving and faithful stewardship. I promise to share what I learn through my regular postings to the Giving Speaks blog. In turn, I will offer opportunities for others to share their stories about how giving and generosity have brought about joy and personal transformation.